Welcome once again to my blog! This time round, I write about suspicious activities that people may detect from others. Mercury has just moved into the sign of Scorpio - a fixed water sign that is more enigmatic and mysterious than most - so this is a great position for the budding detective to uncover the hidden mysteries. Traditionally, Mercury belongs to Gemini and Virgo - air and earth respectively - so would appear to be out of its depth in Scorpio. Having said that, the Mercurial mind would be well placed as an outsider to be especially observant, by watching the interactions and attitudes of others.
Those of us who are empaths, clairvoyants, seers etc will be aware of what's going on around them and feel the immense depth of energies more than usual. Now I come to the crux of some important matters. If this Mercurial energy is sitting in your gut, telling you that something is wrong about someone, take note of it. If, for any reason, you know that now's not the time to act upon something, because you need more information or need to be more cautious before disclosing your feelings about someone to them - or a combination of both - then go with it! The risk of going for it isn't always worth it, especially when you're told time and again by your gut to wait and be patient, all will be revealed in good time. Clues can be frustratingly cryptic but this is when your gut will really tell you and if you look closely enough, you'll work it out and come out smelling like a rose.
For example, a woman admires a man but the signals from him are mixed. Her gut reacts and although she' can't put her finger on the cause, she knows that something's up. Information eventually comes to light about other possibilities, including a hidden relationship that the man, for whatever reason, refuses to disclose. This is where Mercury needs to think carefully and with clarity because there is more than one. Privacy is important and the other person may not feel the need to do so, protecting others close to him. The other possibilities are an unawareness of another's feelings, or else he is all too aware and deliberately chooses to not disclose the truth at all.
If you should find yourself believing that a man behaves towards you with the very intention of being misleading, then run a bloody mile! Chances are that the man has ulterior motives, with the likely one being that he's ready to jump ship at the first opportunity, or enjoy a bit on the side. The man who wants to jump ship because he believes that you're a good thing now will jump again when he finds someone else he believes better, later on down the track, to say nothing for the poor woman he has chosen to dump! The man who wants a bit on the side doesn't want to be mutually exclusive, either. He wants to have his cake and eat it.
You deserve better than that!
It must be noted that not all men are like this, but know your value. A man who's honest and open from the get-go about who he is and who's in his life will not hesitate to mention his relationship status and be proud of being in such a partnership, if he has any inkling of any admiration from another woman, nipping matters in the bud accordingly. A decent man will own up regardless. The admiring woman may feel hurt for a moment, but she knows where she stands and will move on, especially if she's the sort of woman who won't cut another woman's grass. It's simply not worth the hassle.
So think about who you attract and why. Think about what you want for yourself and why. The more you know about yourself and your core values, the more likely you are to rid yourself of any unwanted attention and hurtful situations before they get out of hand. Your inner strength will smell out the devious intentions before they have a chance to unfold.
For the female friends, support this woman. Don't ridicule her and try to lay on your advice, no matter how well-meaning. If she hasn't asked for it, you're just soliciting and taking the moral high ground. Let her sort it out for herself. If she needs your help, she'll ask. Be the best friend you can be, without judgement. You may need this friend yourself one day.
On that note, I bid you Wassail until next time!
